Svetlana Repina asked:




Challenges that a new international couple may face are many, requiring both sides to become genuinely interested in discovering their cultural differences.

There is no doubt that a Russian wife has her part in developing a successful marriage, but a man who considers marrying a Russian wife needs to realize this: your wife will go through a serious transition into a new culture by moving from Russia to the US.

The challenge of surviving the first years of marriage is great, not for someone who is expecting quick results. American men are known to be drawn to Russian women not only for their attractive features, but for known qualities as meekness, kindness and patience as a direct result of a cultural development in Russia. She needs not to loose her qualities over years and that can be achieved only if she has access to her culture and people like herself here, in USA.

Provided that those qualities suppose to smoother and make the marriage work on its own would be quite naïve: those qualities do not make the marriage good automatically.

If your new bride or wife is not able to fully and fluently express her, chances are you are having a language barrier that may last for many years. If a Russian woman studied English in Russia that provided her with only basics of a language which is the same level as, may be a first grader. Her vocabulary is very limited. For such a woman to become totally fluent in English many years may pass, taking away from your marriage very valuable time. You are looking for at least of minimum 8 years.

Language insufficiency is not the only barrier in understanding. The second biggie is the difference in cultural views, values and traditions: they are quiet different.

Here are some tips on how a new husband can help this international marriage develop in a most sufficient possible way.

1. As soon as you can, enroll her into “English as a second language” school or look for alternatives like community classes where she can be face to face with teachers and can practice her pronunciation.
2. She will experience cultural shock. Make your part to help her finding Russian friends, search out American Russian couples as well as Russian couples and develop friendships, they are very fulfilling and great for you both.
3. Bring her shopping in Russian grocery stores.
4. Read books to get familiar with Russian culture. Check out in resources.
5. Be supportive in letting her staying connected with her parents. Let her make phone calls to her family and visiting her parents at least once a year for the first 3 years.

Mishael Mordinson asked:




Head to the happy life.

“A good wife is a treasure, so you have to look for it”

How many times did you think to yourself that life without a family and children is not something you really enjoy, how many times did you realise that loneliness is something that scares you a lot, how many times were your cold and lonely at night in a big but empty house? Some tough questions, but let’s face it, you have not done a lot to change it. It’s easy to be not happy and wait for something to happen, but it’s really not the way you should act.

There is an old saying: ‘A good wife is a treasure, so you have to look for it’, I am sure in your professional life you are not just sitting there and waiting for things to happen, you are working hard to have a good career, so why do you think passive looking for a right girl is the way of success.

A Mordinson Introduction offers men a unique chance to meet nice looking, young and marriage minded girls from Ukraine who are in the same point of their life where they want to have a family and settle down. As you probably heard ladies from Ukraine are not only very beautiful and charming, but very intelligent. One thing that guys from abroad always notice is that ladies here take a pride in the way they dress, very elegant and classy. But of course the looks is not all, the girls are dreaming about finding the right man to create a happy family with, almost all girls have jobs, but they all say family is going to be their main priority in life after they get married. In Ukraine it’s not a tradition to have baby-sitters to take care of children while parents are away at work, most of mothers stay at home full time to take care of the kids. Of course when children go to school, women may have a part time job.

Feminist ideas are not popular here at all, a lady will be pleased to get your attention. Ukrainian women are very feminine and they want to be appreciated.

Every girl who you see at our web site is personally interviewed in our office in Kharkov, we make sure that she has serious intention to get married if she finds the right man, we also check their documents to see how old is a lady, if she has been married before, we check if she has children too. All that is to make sure that only serious and honest ladies join A Mordinson Introduction.
We invite you to visit our web site and look at the girls from the Gallery, after you choose the girl/s who you liked most of all, please send the list to us to our e-mail, also include the introduction letter for the girls and your picture. Your letter will be translated into Russian, printed and delivered to the ladies you chose along with your photograph. Ladies who are interested in you will write back and soon you will get their answers. Sending a lady the introduction letter and receiving her reply is absolutely FREE!

Welcome to A Mordinson Introduction!

Bob Summers asked:




For years men have been seeking foreign brides to marry and bring to the U.S. Canada etc. Foreign brides are also known as mail order brides, the term “mail order bride” is a joke to someone that has gone through the process, in reality there is no such thing as a mail order bride. You will not see a postal truck backing up to someone’s home and delivering a mail order bride and all of her luggage, it’s not that simple.

By law you must meet your future bride in person, and that will usually mean making a trip to her country, the filing of many documents, and then waiting for approval for her to enter your country, and this is just the hurdle after you find the foreign bride you want to marry.

The first step in finding a foreign bride should be deciding what country your search should begin in, chose a country where you like the culture, the people, the beauty of the women, a place you would like to visit etc., if you prefer Russian women, then by all means go to Russia, if you prefer Latin women go to South America.

Colombian women have a world wide reputation for being some of the most beautiful women in the world, however you have many other countries to choose from.

About the beauty of Latin women, here is how the 2008 Miss Universe contest played out.

• Miss Universe 2008: Miss Venezuela – Daya Mendoza
• 1st Runner-up: Colombia – Taliana Vargas
• 2nd Runner-up: Dominican Republic – Marianne Cruz Gonzalez

There are several ways to find and marry Latin Women, Russian women, Asian women etc.;

1. You can join a full service marriage agency that will set up appointments with
their female clients, a good agency will provide translators etc.

2. Join online matchmakers where you pay a monthly fee to e-mail other members.

3. Place an ad in the local newspaper advertising for a wife.

4. Make some online contacts in the country you prefer, it’s not difficult, then just go on a vacation, you will meet more honest decent women using this method that you will any other method, go to malls, supermarkets, parks, you can meet many women this way, you will meet many non-agency women, many women not listed on dating sites etc. find your lodging, find a translator and your on your way, you can also use method No. 2 and try and meet a few ladies online as a back up and a way to learn about her city, country, and recommendations for lodging etc.

There are also a lot of ways to get scammed by women from any of the listed countries above.

BEWARE, along with the home loving, loyal, sincere, honest women you will meet, you will also meet many scammers. Here is a hint how to avoid a scam from women you meet on the Internet or in person, if they ask for money… run! It seems the older guys wanting a 30+ yr. younger wife just can’t seem to say no, and bam, their money is gone and so is the girlfriend.

If your 50 or 60 yrs. old and wanting a 20 yr. old wife, (don’t laugh, this happens often) ask yourself, “what does this hot young women want with me?” The answer will always be, “a way out of the country and money”.

Traditionally, the age difference for a successful marriage to a foreign wife has been 10 – 15 yrs., that can even be stretched somewhat if the two are more compatible in likes and dislikes, but it may also take longer to find a compatible wife.

Jenny Rogers asked:




The first step to marry a Russian mail order bride is to join online dating websites. Getting to know Moscow girls for dating is easy because they are ready to meet you, Western men. If you are a Western man who seeks an online bride for marriage, then register at these Russian dating sites. Some are free and some is paid services. Some popular dating singles services have thousands of Moscow girls looking for marriage. They either registered their personal ads themselves and some are registered by the on line dating agencies. Anyway, you can search brides at these personals services. There are some Russian brides online currently so you can chat with them right away. Most of these brides speak and write English a little bit, but not fluently. However, they will learn English when they come to America or any other Western country.

There are many dating agencies on the Internet which provide the convenient way for Western men to seek Russian women. Like I mentioned above, there are free dating sites and paid services. These paid services are not expensive. They also have language translators who need to translate English to Russian language. Mail order brides are different from singles online. International brides who get married with Western men are called mail order brides. Russian mail order brides are girls who come to America or Canada by marrying American men or Canadian men. The means of getting married is by online Russian dating agencies. If you know a Russian friend who can hook you up with a lady, then you do not need to join these dating websites. If you do not know any friend who can hook you up, then the best way to get a Russian bride is to seek her at online dating services.

Mail order brides from Russia is easy to get married. Do you know why? because they do not want to get married with Russian men so they register themselves to dating agencies with hope to find foreign men, American guys or others. Free dating services provide the means for both, dating brides and American men, seek with each other on the internet. These services are not the same as online dating services. They are different. Seeking dates online is not the same as Russian mail order bride services. After you know a woman from any dating agency, then you chat with her, talk to her, and you have to travel to Russia for a face to face meeting.

The rule is that you should not chat with only one girl and spend about 15 hours on the plane, traveling to Russia to see her. You must chat with at least two Russian girls. You travel there to meet with both and select the best one to get married with. You should not get married with a Russian female at the first time you come there to see her. After seeing her there, come back to America, then think about your decision, then make your decision. It is extremely important for this big thing in your life. See at least two Russian women over there, then select one to get married with. Think about this way, girls in Russian do not meet you only. She may meet some American men to have more chance. She thinks the same as you do. She is not sure that you will come back to marry her.

It is better to join free Russian dating services for starters. There are so many free dating sites out there to help Western men to seek online brides. Seeking brides on Net is easy and simple. Do not wait. Take action now. Being single is not good at all. Join these free Russian dating services and meet that special soul mate of your dream.

Ken Marlborough asked:




Mail order brides are women who register themselves in a catalogue wherein foreign men can select them as a wife-to-be. Because of their beauty, many men regard Russian women highly and as a great prospect for a wife.

A Russian woman does not only look pretty, she makes an effort to stay pretty. She knows how to dress herself properly, making sure that she is presentable wherever she may go. She is concerned about her physical appearance, her weight, her hair, her attire, and the way she conducts herself.

A Russian lady knows how to balance the needs of the husband and her own personal needs. She understands her role as a wife and a mother and accepts the responsibility with open arms. She knows how to take care of the husband and pay attention to his needs and is always willing to take care of domestic tasks and household chores such as cooking, cleaning the house, washing the dishes, doing the laundry, etc.

A Russian girl can easily adapt to her new environment and has the eagerness to constantly learn new things. Many Russian women are already familiar with two languages but are still willing to learn something new. Not only in learning the language but they are willing to adapt to the culture, learn the different cuisines, and adjust to the philosophies and politics and everything else that can help them succeed in the marriage.

Though she knows how to meet the needs of the family, she also knows how to focus on her own needs. Russian women usually have a college degree that allows them not only to accept the support of her husband, but also to be able to step up to the plate to support and contribute to the financial needs of the family.

Chess McDoogle asked:




A sexy Russian woman is much easier to form a relationship with than most American women! There are three important ways to go about hooking up with a sexy Russian woman:

1. Get online and start searching. Going to bars now days is a prehistoric way to meet women. Why waste your time week after week hoping to even talk to a woman when you can find a sexy Russian woman online in one night and begin conversing with her right away.

We live in an amazing time where all the easy possibilities should be taken advantage of. Being able to easily date a sexy Russian woman is one of those amazing advantages we now have.

2. When engaging in a relationship with a sexy Russian woman get over the physical distance hangups for now. You’re a plane ride away and while the distance physically may seem far, the closeness you will achieve through continual communication online will be so great that you’ll see why typical, standard American relationships, fail so often.

Communication is always the number one factor in relationships, and to think you are mastering that aspect from the very start, creates a powerful opportunity for a successful relationship with a sexy Russian woman.

When you finally meet the sexy Russian woman, and you will eventually hook up, then it will be much more significant, meaningful, sensual and erotic. All the usual back and forth formalities of getting to know one another will already be out of the way.

3. It is important to find the safest, honest, and most efficient path to take when entering into the Russian women dating scene. Researching and reading the right route to take when looking to date a sexy Russian woman involves finding the right websites, advice forums, and learning the proper etiquette.

Thankfully there are Russian dating manuals out there that can cut to the chase and provide you with everything you need to start hooking up with a sexy Russian woman.

A. Hathaway asked:




Avoiding the Pitfalls of Fraud

Most men agree that Russian women are some of the most attractive in the world, up there with the best of nations such as Brazil, Venezuela and Romania. But, is finding a beautiful Russian who is honest and legitimate, and who wishes to marry a Westerner a real option anymore? Fortunately, the answer to that question is still Yes. Finding those quality women, however, is an increasingly difficult task in today’s Internet marketplace.

The best option for finding a Russian bride is to travel to Russia, explore and travel the country, get to know the culture and feel for the language, and take care of business the old fashioned way – that’s right, walk right up and talk to her. If she doesn’t speak English, you’re on to the next. If traveling to Russia is out of the question, for financial or other reasons, finding a beautiful Russian bride is still possible, but requires additional caution.

Searching Google or Yahoo for Russian women will quickly uncover thousands of sites such as Date Russian Brides.com or Single Brides.com and many others. How do you know which is legit? You don’t. No dating site on the Internet is immune from fraud and international scam, not one. This knowledge alone can save the customer a lot of time, money and heartache.

The warning signs:

1. A woman who falls in love quickly, too quickly.

2. A woman with model like photos, like out of a magazine.

3. A woman who soon asks for money for visa or “emergencies”.

4. A woman who writes very general, almost form-like letters.

5. A woman who never speaks about herself or her family.

Now that you’re aware of the warning signs and you understand that fraud and scams from Eastern Europe are rapidly rising, you’re on the right track. But, what if the relationship progresses and you’re considering a serious committment? Get her checked out with a professional investigation from Wymoo. You’ve been talking with this woman for 6 months, and you trust her, you say. Too many victims have said the same, and still lost big. How does it happen? In short, the scammers are professionals.

More than ever… be skeptical and get her checked out!

Best of luck,

A. Hathaway

Copyright © 2005-2007 A. Hathaway

Mishael Mordinson asked:




The Roman matron asked Rabbi Yossi ben Halafta:

“How many days did it take G-d to create the world?” He answered: “It took him 6 days, and that is what written in Shmot 31:17: “During 6 days G-d created sky and earth…»

And what has he been doing since then?-asked the matron.

He has been arranging the marriages. This man will be a husband for that women etc- said Rabbi Yossi

But I can also do that!- said matron. – I have lots of female and male slaves. I can easily make up couples from them.

Rabbi Yosef said: You think that arranging marriages is very easy? But for the G-d it is just as hard as to split Red Sea.

After Yosef left, the matron called 2000 of her slaves, ont thousand of female slaves were standing in front on thousand male slaves. Then she said: This man will be a husband of that woman, that woman will be a wife of that man and so on. The marriages were made the same night.

But the next morning just married couples came to matron, one man had a wound on his head, another one didn’t have an eye, a woman had a broken leg. They started to shout: I don’t want that woman! I can’t live with that man!’

The matron asked to call Rabbi Yossi and when he came, she said: Your Tora is right, and what you told me is true.

Rabbi Yossi answered: Now you see! You thought hat arranging marriages is an easy task. And it turned out to be harder then splitting the Red Sea. Pesikta da-Rav Kahana 2:4

Matching people is not an easy task at all. We are all different and of course every person has special views and likes. It is impossible to find somebody who will match you 100%, but you should not worry about that! What is important is to find somebody who will be willing to compromise and solve the problems together.

Many people think it is impossible to create a good family with somebody who is not from your own culture. Our experience has proved that most of Russian women actually have the life values that men wished American women had: they are loyal, sincere, family oriented (doesn’t mean that she only wants to stay at home, but the first priority is always family, many people think that in Russian culture women are housewives, and all they can do is to take care of house and kids, in fact most of the girls have jobs, but they would not put in in front of family interests). Russian women pay lots of attention to their outlook.

All those qualities surely make it easier for a man to find a great match. We believe that matching people is a serious process and it has to be fully supervised by professionals. We wish you good luck in finding your match!

Mail order brides do they still exist? You came to realizing the desire to try something new in your life, something that you have heard about but didn’t dare to try, well let me answer some of the questions you might have. Of course I don’t know exactly what you want to ask, so if you don’t find the information that you need in this article, please feel free to contact me! Here we go! 1. What are those girls looking for? Well, most of Russian girls you see are looking for exactly the same thing as you are! They want to have a family, want to be happy, have kids and enjoy life. One thing they are interested right now, is a man from somewhere abroad. 2. Why such nice looking ladies can’t find themselves a man in Ukraine or Russia? I must admit that there is fewer men then women in Ukraine, but this is just a part of the reason. Men here are so spoiled with the beauty of women, that they don’t really value it a lot, so after couple of negative experiences with local men girls start to think that their soul mate does not have to live in the same city or even country. One more thing is that international and intercultural marriages have proved to be really strong. The difficulties that people must overcome makes their relationship better and there is always the process of learning about each other language, country and culture. 3. There is a girl who I like, what should I do? Just send her a letter or roses? How should I write the first letter? Congratulations! It’s very important thing that you are about to do. As they say: “There is just one chance to make the first impression”, so you should carefully write the letter. What to mention in the first letter? Any general information of you that you would like to share with the lady. Such as your age, marital status, occupation, hobbies, favorite time spending and also express your interest to the personality of the lady. Try to make the letter as personal as possible. Asking questions will show her your interest in getting to know her, so ask questions! Concerning flowers and other gifts, girls love romantic men, you know that! Don’t forget to attach your picture. 4. What if my correspondence will go very well and I decide to meet the Lady in person. What should I do? Do I need a visa to come to Ukraine? Going to Ukraine and meeting the girl(s) will be one of the most exciting expierences in your life. The Agency will ensure that your trip is well arranged and the meeting are scheduled in the convenient time. The initial meetings are usually not very long – 1,5 hour each. This way it’s possible to meet all the ladies of interest within the few days and to concentrate on those ladies who you feel the most comfortable with. Meetings are one on one basis and take a place in some nice cafes or restaurants. You do not need a visa to enter Ukraine if you are a citizen of the USA. 5. If we decide to get married how do I bring her home? The process of bringing a lady in the country is different in all countries, but in the US it means applying for a K1 visa. The process of getting a visa takes from 6 to 9 months and requires lots of paperwork. But it’s absolutely real to get a visa, be accurate with the documents and read carefully all the instructions. I hope I answered some of the questions you wanted to ask. As I said before, if you have more questions please go ahead and send them over to me! I will be happy to answer.

Mark De Schutter asked:




If you want to be successful online with Russian dating then start where you are. You have pictures and bios that can indicate which women might be on your list of potential wives. As you go through this list remember that you may need to reach out to many before narrowing it down to one. It’s a little bit like shopping for something perfect. You need to try on many different items before you find the exact right fit.

You can only learn so much from the initial introductory photo and biography. Without actually engaging with these women it is impossible to tell whether there is any sign of compatibility. There are all kinds of little nuances between a man and a woman that can create a lasting healthy relationship or create a living nightmare.

If you are seeking a traditional woman that wants to be a wife and a mother, then please do not waste your time trying to change a woman into something she is not. If she wants to get married, get an education and pursue her goals, she is not going to be happy sitting at home being just a wife. You can’t make her be happy fulfilling only your goals.

Don’t stress out and don’t put pressure all over your conversations. All you’re doing is talking to a woman and it doesn’t have to be anything more than that for awhile. You’re learning about her and she is learning about you. The fastest way to fail at being successful online with Russian dating is to create all kinds of pressure where there doesn’t have to be any.

As you discuss the various things that come up, notice how well you can disagree on a point without investment in the outcome. Maybe it’s something small like a preference in weather or maybe it’s something big like whether or not to have children. Does the entire conversation derail or are you both able to turn it around a little bit and respect the difference of opinion?

Is it marriage or is it love? If you are looking for the first and just hoping for the second then you are in the right ballpark. Many Russian women marry their Western husbands and eventually do fall in love with them. Love takes time. Marriage takes much less time. It is vital that you know the difference going into it so that you and your new wife end up happy.

There are all kinds of little details that can make Russian online dating work and all kinds of little details that can cause it to come crashing down around you. It is a risk, but it isn’t really any more risky than developing a relationship with a local woman. Relationships mean that you put yourself out there and that you might feel some pain along the way.

Remember that this could end up being a real life relationship and thus you need to be as authentic as possible. You are there to find a woman to be your wife, you’re not there looking to live as someone else. You are you and those details that make up the core of who you are should be honest. Lying now will only cause distress in the future. Even if you’re not keen on the answer, tell the truth. Developing the relationship into what it could be takes some time, but it also takes a constant effort at honest and true communication.