Chess McDoogle asked:




Online dating has become one of the most successful and easiest ways to find an incredible and attractive mate for dating or long term relationships. But one should not limit oneself to dating locally. Many have discovered the enormous advantages of online dating with women from other countries, and one of the best places is Russia!

Here are some of the incredible advantages with dating Russian women online:

1. An astounding number of Russian women are very interested and actively seeking to meet foreign men. So the interest is already very high, making men from other countries attractive prospects from the get go.

2. Most Russian women actively seeking relationships are under 30 and do not have children, nor have they been married. Often times the fear of dating online is the “baggage” of bad experiences that your potential mate may carry with them. This isn’t the case with Russian women, possibly because of the next factor:

3. Most Russian women seeking online relationships are highly educated. One statistic ranked 90% of Russian women as having higher educations, and many being professionals as well.

How so you go about dating Russian women?

You will want to research legitimate sites and find the most active and reliable Russian online dating services, sites, and message boards. Investigate forums in which other males have posted reviews of legitimate online Russian dating outlets, and have had success themselves.

But first, before joining or logging on to any Russian dating online site, you will need to do your homework, so you won’t blow any chances with potential online Russian romances. The best way to do this is by getting a Russian dating manual (preferably written by a Russian female), which will teach you the proper etiquette, traditions, and the right ways to go about successfully communicating online. This way once you do get on a forum or dating site, you’ll be properly prepared and can impress your potential Russian romance immediately.

Mishael Mordinson asked:




Isn’t it interesting to learn why men travel to Ukraine to meet a girl? What is the problem with American women, or maybe the problem is in men? Why hundred and thousands American, English, Australian, Canadian men decide to try looking for a wife from Eastern Europe? What is so unique about those women? What kind of difficulties there might be during the process and does it really worth it? I will try to answer those and other questions standing on my knowledge.

So let’s start from the beginning. Why men decide to come to Ukraine? Because they are looking for something that they can’t find at home, but what’s that? Many say they feel like not many women share the same life values, women are too materialistic and career-oriented. Another big reason is that men often want to meet younger girls, in Russian and Ukrainian culture it’s absolutely normal for a girl to marry a man who is much older than her. Ukrainian ladies think it’s great to have a husband who is wise, experienced and actually knows what he wants from life. An average Ukrainian lady is willing to have family and children, she wants to be with a man and devote her life to him and family. There is a famous Russian pop-song that has these lines: What does a girl need? Only her beloved to be next to her!

Another thing that attracts western guys in Ukrainian girls is their natural beauty. Some guys can’t really believe those stunningly nice looking girls are single and don’t have hundreds of men chasing them all around the city. The truth is that Ukrainian and Russian men are very spoiled by the fact that there are so many nice looking girls. So after having some negative experiences with local guys, girls start to consider meeting a guy from abroad.

Here’s a passage from one man from the USA, who decided to look for a soul mate abroad: Like so many men, I have spent many years passively hoping to find the right woman with whom to share a life. After some time, I came to a conclusion that it would be interesting to try and meet a lady from somewhere outside my own borders, outside my own world. As I became more open minded to this venture, I was left with two questions: Where? And how?

Here’s couple more thoughts from an American man who has been to Ukraine and used our service.

I have an undergraduate and two advanced degrees, a successful profession, but my life was unbalanced, lacking a loved one. Thanks to the innovative Mordinson Agency, I met the beautiful Victoria Kovalenko on my trip to Kharkov in July

I was very worried that this kind of pursuit would be ill advised for a number of reasons including: mistrust of Internet companies, cultural and language differences with anyone that I might meet, cultural bias here in the USA against this method to meet a partner, and the enormity of putting together a solid relationship at such distances. Many worthy men would question the judgment of undertaking such an adventure?

So finding your loved one on the other part of the world is not so easy really. But the truth is that it’s absolutely possible to find a lady of your dream, all is needed for that is some courage and strength. There are real, nice and very attractive women here who want to find their sweethearts!

Mishael Mordinson asked:  

There is nothing more enticing or alluring than the prospect of finding that one true love. Perhaps the only thing better could be true love with a catwalk model. For thousands of forlorn, abandoned, rejected or just fed up with feminism’ men in Western Europe, the USA, Canada and Australia, all trails seem to ‘lead eastward’ as they search for the love of their life. The marriage agency business in Ukraine is booming. It was born shortly the fall of the wall, but received its biggest infusion of life about 7 years ago with the rise in popularity of the Internet.

Ukraine is second after Russia in numbers of women using the Internet superhighway to find love and romance and, perhaps, a better life. But how many of these women are for real? How many wants love, marriage and a little one in a baby carriage? Surprisingly enough after talking with a cross-section of men recently arrived in Kyiv from Western Europe, the USA and Canada on marriage tours, not as many as you would think are interested in pursuing marriage. These men, who had been corresponding with the woman of ‘their dreams’ for many months, were dismayed to find that once on the ground in Ukraine, a different story was on the verge of ruining their fairytale quest for a Slavic princess. There were three com?plaints this reporter heard from all but two of the men. Number one:

I. The girl said she had second thoughts and didn’t want to get married so soon.

2. The girl said she had no plans to leave Ukraine.

3. The girl ‘appeared’ interested only in going out and having a good time.

“It was just a bit strange to me,” says Curtis, a computer programmer from San Jose California. Curtis had been corresponding with a girl named Svetlana in Kyiv for about 6 months before deciding to take the plunge. “Everything appears o.k. on the surface, but when I want to talk about specifics, plans for the future, she backs off. I mean I am only here for 7 days, I don’t have a long time to put things together, it was really kind of frustrating,” he says. Curtis also says the passion and heartfelt feelings that were in the emails and letters before his arrival were missing in the face to face contact. “There was something peculiar about our first and second meetings. I didn’t get the impression that I was talking to the same girl I had been writing to for a half of a year. She said she didn’t want to get married so soon and that she was nervous about relocating to the USA,” said Curtis. Those two points are the sticklers. Yes, marriage is a big step, and one should be a little nervous about broaching the subject, but shouldn’t that be a consideration before a person enlists the services of a marriage agency, not after the guy you have been writing ‘sweet nothings’ to shows up at Boryspil Airport?

The first two points were put to American businessman and longtime Kyiv resident Mr. Brett Ousley, himself President of Kiev Connections. “I am a single guy, and have used agencies in the past, and some of the problems mentioned are what led me to open up my own agency”, he says. Brett says many of the plethora of agencies in Ukraine are in the business to collect and sell as many names and addresses as they can. This ‘killing the golden goose’ mentality in the marriage agency business is bad for the legitimate operations who genuinely try to match the appropriate people for a solid relationship. “I remember this one time, years ago, I was on a date with a girl from some agency in town,” says Ousley, “and after I pick her up we start walking to this cafe in order to get to know each other better. As we are walking, she nonchalantly blurts out that she can not be out late because her husband will be home in a while”. Needless to say, Ousley politely ducked out. “She was amazing, she like said I hope this doesn’t preclude us going out tonight? I said well, ‘what’s the point’, see ya later,” says the disgusted bride hunter.

Ousley says this experience was such a shocker that it has helped form a cornerstone of his operation. Through screening of the applicants, his suspicions were well founded. What some people don’t consider as that this is a ‘win win’ situation for the ladies,” says Ousley. “It costs them nothing. The risk is the man’s. She waits for the agency to call, or she collects the letters, gifts and dates all for free, while the man uses his one vacation a year, buys a ticket, lodgings in Kyiv and lays his heart on the line, so that is why we make sure our girls are on the level,” says Ousley. Ousley says that he periodically reviews a girl’s status, and that some are rejected, or removed from his roster if they are found to be just in the game for a good time and not serious. Another agency that specializes in personalized matchmaking is the Mordinson Agency of Kharkiv. Mordinson is a premium agency specializing in some of ‘the most attractive women in the Kharkiv region, and goes to the trouble of listing it’s success stories on the web site, with actual photos of the couples it has produced. “Our girls are all interested in getting married and we go to the trouble of individually tailoring a program for the man who is visiting, so he feels special and the process goes smoothly,” says representative Darya Mordinson. “We don’t conduct these uncomfortable ‘meat-market’ socials that some of the bigger agencies conduct,” she says of the classic marriage agency meets where ten guys will find themselves facing a room full of up to sixty girls. “The meetings we offer are all individual and only with girls or women who are definitely interested in the man so that disappointment is who have dealt with the mass marketers of names and addresses. You can tell such sites right away when you load up their page on your browser. You see about ten to fifteen photos per page, nearly identical wording on the bios, normally only credit card payment info and no one person’s name at the top who you can talk to if you have a problem. If you are surfing for an agency, a sign that one is more credible than others would be the listing of a phone number and a manager’s name. This tells you there is someone accountable, and if possible before you send any money or write any romantic thoughts, spend the dollar it costs per minute for the long distance call from abroad and touch base with the manager. From your conversation you will be able to tell if this is a ‘take the money and run’ operation or one that will work with you in attempting to find the match of a lifetime. The address sellers are the weak link in the marriage agency chain.?

Marriage agencies do attract negative publicity, and are still seen as somewhat exploitative, but it is worth remembering that they exist everywhere. However, the financial differentials between Western husbands and Slavic brides has left the practice open to attack. In the late 1990s a feminist legislator from Washington State proposed a law wherein background checks should be required of men enlisting the services of a marriage agency overseas. Allegedly responding to cases wherein eastern European and Asian women were bought as mail order brides and abandoned or abused in the United States, the legislation was thrown out, largely due to the lack of concrete cases of abuses. In fact, many agencies make a point of listing success stories of ‘happy ever after’ couples on their sites, and guard against getting involved with any Western client deemed ‘undesirable’.

In general, potential bride hunters should be careful when choosing an agency and ask those sensitive tough questions before hopping on a plane or forking out a lot of money for that one ‘special girl’. There are many genuine ladies looking for long-term involvement, but there are also many girls more excited by the prospect of ‘no strings’ fun with comparatively well-off foreign man. Happy hunting!

Davina Anderson asked:




You want to find Russian mail order brides. There are two ways to do this: a right way and a wrong way. This article will teach you the right way – a tried and tested approach – to find potential Russian brides in only a matter of minutes.

First, let me tell you about the wrong way. Most men like yourself will join a Russian bride site. This is only logical. These sites list hundreds of Russian women supposedly seeking husbands. Sounds perfect, yes? Wrong. It is widely accepted that such sites are a con, full of fake profiles and information. This fact is also quite easy to believe. Why? Well, because these bride sites charge women to post their ads. Since most of the ads are posted by poor women in the poorer parts of Russia, it is hard to believe they can afford thirty dollars or more. It is also quite highly unlikely these women even have a means of paying online! This brings me onto my second point: money. These sites are hugely expensive. You will pay as much as thirty dollars, sometimes more, for each and every woman you want to contact. Just imagine if you contact ten women, spend three-hundred dollars, only to find the site was a fake!

The right approach to finding Russian mail order brides is either free or inexpensive and will put you in contact with a massive number of “real” Russian women seeking husbands. It has become very commonplace for Russian ladies to find husbands through major internet dating sites. And this makes a lot of sense. The woman can join then for free and, immediately, come into contact with millions of potential husband. A pretty woman will find it easy to locate a man. This is where you come in. All you have to do is join a major dating service. Most of them offer a free community, which is really all you need for starters. When you create your profile (all these services ask you to make a profile on joining), simply write down that you want a bride from Russian, and be sure to include photographs of yourself and details that might be of interest. Russian women tend to prefer men who can provide and who are sensible and practical. Writing about your job is always a good idea. The quickest way to now find a potential bride is to do a search for women looking for men in Russian. You can also filter your search by adding keywords like bride or husband. You will now have a list of Russian women who are seeking a husband. It is your choice if you email or instant message them. Sometimes, you will find literally thousands of Russian women online, just waiting to hear from men like yourself. As you can see, it will only take you a matter of “minutes” to make a profile, join a free dating community, and find Russian ladies seeking husbands!

Rick Kay asked:




Swimsuit models from the West don’t have anything on lovely Russian ladies. In fact, it seems as though an inordinate number of average and typical Russian girls could make a career out of modeling anywhere in the world. Knowing full well that they have bodies that don’t quit, many mail order women are now marketing themselves to Western men as Russian bikini brides. You see they know that they have a lot of competition in their home land and that there are relatively few Western men willing to go out with them. Spend a few minutes online perusing the profiles of these stunning ladies and you will begin to understand both their allure and how competitive the field is for them.

Indeed, if you are a single heterosexual male and you’ve ever been fortunate enough to visit Russia, Ukraine, Belarus, or any of the countries of the former Soviet Union, you were probably awe struck by the hoards of insanely gorgeous foreign women walking around. If you are extraordinarily observant it is perhaps even possible that you also noticed the severe absence of handsome men that by all accounts should have been near these beautiful foreign ladies. Amazingly, not only are handsome men conspicuously missing from this picture, it seems like these kinds of men are almost entirely absent from these regions of the world altogether. No wonder many Russian girls are on the internet looking for Western men dressed (or undressed) in the sexiest of outfits.

How is it possible that Russian men aren’t very attractive, you ask? It is a good question that not too many Western men are in a hurry to answer. It is indeed a curious freakish fact of nature that countries in the former Soviet Union seem to be growing hot Russian brides on trees, while most Russian men seem to be genetically challenged. Whatever the reason for this phenomenon however, Western men brave enough to seek out Russian women are increasingly cashing in on this favorable dynamic. Meanwhile the competition can be so fierce for many of these lovely ladies that they are willing to post their most sexy modelling photos, sometimes where they are half-naked or in bikinis, on the internet.

Many men travel to these regions of the world searching for “brides in bikinis” hoping to find at least one special foreign lady who happens to look like she belongs on the cover of a fashion magazine. Lucky for them, they have no trouble spotting such women. In fact, there is a saying that circulates in certain Expat circles that sums up the situation about women in the former Soviet Union. It goes something like this: “Every foreign woman here IS a model, WAS a model, will BE a model or could have BEEN a model!”

Given the fact that there is so much competition amongst these hot Russian women, it should come as no surprise that they enjoy meeting and dating Western men almost as much as the men themselves enjoy being in their company. Besides looking for a better life, which sometimes means they are just hoping to land a husband who isn’t an alcoholic, these foreign ladies are also looking for men who don’t seem like they more appropriately belong in the play, “Beauty and the Beast!”

Upon acquaintance with a foreigner, these ladies are usually pleasantly surprised how nice Western men appear to them. In fact, women in these regions commonly think that Western men are ten years or more younger than they actually are! No doubt this concept seems impossible to believe to most Westerners. Impossible, that is, until Western men actually make a trip to the former Soviet Union and see their competition up close and personal.

Yes, indeed, seeing is truly believing! For the skeptical people out there, I encourage you to plan a trip to the former Soviet Union and see for yourself. And for those single men out there, you are encouraged to run, not walk, to your nearest travel agent and visit the land of the plenty, so you too can find your very own, “Russian Bikini Bride.”

Nataliya Piterova asked:




Russian ladies are very special women. They are different from women living in Western Europe. They act differently and strange sometimes for those who have no idea about Russian culture. Men with no notion about Soviet Union times will have difficulties with apprehending and understanding Russian ladies.

Soviet times left a mark on Russian ladies’ mentality. Taking into consideration cultural features and mentality plays significant role in dating Russian women. Women from CIS are more family oriented than career oriented. Most of Russian women established their own business successfully. Many beautiful women from Russia are intelligent and able to make much money but their priority is family life and family happiness.

Most of men are usually confused when they start dating and discover that their Russian women pressing them for marriage. It might seem that women take advantage of their foreigner fiancés. But in many cases it is not so. The fact of the matter is that Russian girls are very serious about relationships and any reason to think that man is not serious about creating family makes them be alert and leave such a man. Women from Russia want to feel themselves safe and confident in relationships. Men who date Russian women should speak their mind out as to relationships and their intentions.

One more important issue to consider in building relationships with Russian ladies is openness. Russian ladies are very open minded by their nature. In dating they take hands on all events in life of their partner. They do it not because they are eager to be in control of all details but want to share life with that only man and be great help to him.

Russian women are very devoted in a family life. They are famous by doing many activities perfectly and taking much responsibility on themselves. They can be great cooks, loving and attentive mothers, skillful lovers, excellent housewives, loyal friends and wise wives and the list is not complete yet. If the man finds the right approach to Russian women and knows how to treat a Russian girl well he will be the happiest man in his relationships with Russian ladies.

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It’s absolutely natural for a man to want to have a beautiful wife and a happy family. Sometimes it happens so that a very successful in career respect man, misses a family. Maybe he just didn’t have time to look for a nice girl, because he spent most of the time working, or just didn?t meet his sweetheart! However at some point of life a man realizes that his nice car, or a big house, or a well-paid job doesn’t make him so happy as it used to in the past! In Ukraine there?s a saying: “Man in his lifetime has to plant a tree, build a house and raise a son”, unfortunately we don’t have anything to do with trees or real estate, but we definitely can introduce you to a young, attractive and marriage minded lady, who will make a wonderful wife and a great mother for your kid (or kids). Mordinson family has started working in the international dating field in 1999, and since then we had a privilege to introduce some of the most amazing, young and caring Ukrainian ladies to the men from all over the world. Our strategy is personal introduction. We only have about 200 ladies. The gallery is kept up to date. All the ladies are available and live in Kharkov or its area and are able to meet you here. We strongly believe that quality is a lot more important than quantity. That’s why all the ladies who you see at the gallery are carefully selected. We personally interview every girl in our catalogue. Each lady is photographed in Mordinson photo studio; there are only fresh, current and clear pictures in each lady’s profile. It’s also possible to ask for New Exclusive set of pictures that will be done particularly for you. The ladies get all the services FREE. If you liked a lady and want to contact her, you may send an introduction letter to her. All the letters are professionally translated by staff translators, who have degrees in German and English, including a certificate from University of Cambridge in English (certificate #5889857) and Master Degree in Translation science (German and English) from Ukrainian People’s Academy. (degree XA#25265634). A Mordinson Introduction is offering wide range of services that will help to develop your friendship, you can send flowers and gifts, talk over the phone, get her an English course, if her knowledge needs to be improved. It will be surprising to realise that just in a couple of weeks, you will be talking with the girl(s) like if you have known each other for ages! No letters can replace a meeting, so at some point of time you will decide to make a trip to Ukraine. We will give all the feedback needed to make a trip. As you get to Ukraine, you are met by Mordinson representative who will serve you as an interpreter-coordinator during your trip. During your stay in Kharkov, you are going to stay in a modern, brand new Mordinson owned apartments. The apartments are approximately 70 square meters (754 square feet), equipped with powerful air conditioning and central vacuum cleaning systems. The apartment complex is situated in the very centre of the city, 5 minutes walk from main city Liberty Square. You are to provide us with the list of the ladies you are interested in and if you have any preferences as for the meeting schedule. The meeting schedule is well organized and constructed in prior to your visit. The initial meetings are usually not very long, 1,5 hour each. This way it’s possible to meet all the ladies of interest within the few days and to concentrate on those ladies who you feel the most comfortable with. To have the second meeting scheduled with the ladies that you liked you are to give the names and ID# of the ladies to your translator/coordinator. We’ll contact the ladies and schedule the next meetings on your convenience. Within 7 days you may meet as many ladies as you like any number of times. Meetings are one on one basis and take a place in some nice cafes or restaurants. Joining A Mordinson Introduction elite dating club is the investment to your future family. It is an essential step on the way to finding a loving, caring and beautiful wife from Ukraine.

The word Dating is making a buzz among the different masses of people all over the world. Dating in today’s world is all about the real world. There are thousand of people who search on the net for online dating services. Similarly Russian dating is taking the people of Russia by a storm. Russian dating is in great demand, as people like to find their matches online. Russian dating services are a way to help two different people meet each other. There are many Russian dating sites specially designed to help two Russians meet. Today online dating is more into demand as compared to offline dating. Though most people meet each other through social gatherings, friends, and relatives and through family gatherings. However it is online dating that is making more off the buzz today as compared to offline dating. Russian men and women are open-minded and are available for correspondence. Online dating services gives Russian men and women to meet and establish relationships with most beautiful people in the world. There are millions of attractive and good-looking girls and boys in former USSR. This includes Russia, Ukraine, Moldova, Estonia, Belarus, Latvia, Lithuania and Kazakhstan. Russian dating services Considering the craze for dating by the Russian people there are many Russian dating websites that offer a whole range of services with the only goal to make your way to your beloved shorter. Online dating provides an opportunity to Russian men and women to find a right date and accordingly call on for a relationship. Why Russian women are not attracted to Russian men as compared to foreign men? The people of Russia have a very peculiar nature. They are more into fashion and make it a point to look good wherever they go. Especially Russian girls put lot of efforts to have a good complexion, hair and looks. They like to wear attractive clothes and make their presence felt wherever they go. They like to attract opposite sex and want to look the best. Considering the demand to look good to attract opposite sex there is no doubt that Russians have a high thirst for dating. It is generally seen that Russian women like to have foreign husbands. It might sound strange but this is the fact. If the Russian women’s are looking for conservative values and look forward to having families they might find many Russian men as well. Then what is that attracts Russian women’s to foreign partners. The Russian women have always complaint that Russian men are laid back and cannot hold the responsibility to be good husbands and fathers. It is seen that Russian women are more attracted to American men as they give family the first priority overall. Many Russia women find dating with Americans more wise. If you feel that you are lonely you can always signup with an online dating service and add some colors to your life. It would be advisable to try on with a reputed dating service even though their fees are high they offer value added services to their customers. They can help you find pleasure and establish a relationship with any women you choose here.

Terrence Aubrey asked:




If you have decided to chance your luck with Russian women, congratulations, they are worth the extra effort involved. Equally it might be helpful to you to understand a little where these ladies are coming from. They are a little different ( I explain below how and why) and being aware of, or better still understanding these differences can save much misunderstanding. There are many truly gorgeous Russian ladies:- Go get yours…..

Russian and Ukrainian women are different and knowing these differences can significantly increase your chances of success. Why are they different and what are the differences? Because these countries were effectively closed to the rest of the world until relatively recently, these ladies have grown up and developed within systems devoid of foreign influences and this is very noticeable and in many ways attractive.

Here are some of the more notable differences.

1. It is fair to say that in general moral and family values are higher here than in many areas of the world. The development of equality for women in these countries seems to have followed a different route, a different path and so many of these ladies are proudly feminine. They share no inhibitions in dressing, grooming and presenting themselves so as to highlight their feminism, sensuality and beauty.

2. Seeking the best education possible is for many the first priority and it is something taken very seriously. The education systems available are very good by any global standard and equally intelligence levels are way above global averages.

3. Having achieved their University diploma, or often during this period, thoughts of marriage and starting both a home and family begin to arise. They have been brought up to believe in a strong, secure and happy family as the basis of their happiness and for this reason will put unusual efforts into making and sustaining a happy and cosy home and relationship.

4. Once she has settled and established herself in her new life, her new culture and lifestyle, she will quite likely want to contribute in every way to her new life, her new family. No, you will find that many would actually prefer to in some way utilise their intelligence and contribute completely within their family unit.

5. In general these ladies are not wealthy, but equally, they are by nature very generous. The willingness to share that which undoubtably has required much effort and time to aquire is very attractive. No it is fair to say that for most aquiring material possessions is not a major part of their agenda. Again this is in general not true. Although equally they will seek a partner that is financially secure. It is fair to say they list priority of values as:- Kindness, honesty and generosity (of heart), a serious and responsible attitude, a sense of humour and a passion for life.

So how can this information help you in finding your Russian soul mate?

1. Congratulate her on her beauty, but do not dwell excessively upon this aspect solely. They know they are beautiful and in general seek a partner that will love them for what they are and who they are, not simply for their beauty.

2. Engage her intellect, exchange ideas, you will quite possibly be surprised that her viewpoint will be very different, valid and refreshingly interesting. As confidence and trust develops, encourage her to reveal her hopes and dreams, discover her values and what she really believes to be important.

3. The fact that you are in the fortunate position to try for a Russian Bride does by its nature indicate that you are financially secure. Clearly the expenses involved are incomparable to meeting the “girl next door”. Reasure her that yes you are in a position to both help her move to your country and even more important help her establish her new life within your country. Remember she will be considering leaving her home, country and friends. She will need to feel very confident of both your love and your ability to help her start a new life in a new country.

4. Would you be happy for her to either continue her career in her new country, or find a new way of using her intelligence in finding a new occupation? Establish from her how she would like her future life to be and then work together with her in achieving these goals.

5. Be sensitive, if you have a huge house, car, or income let her discover it herself naturally. For the majority of these ladies a kind, open and generous heart is way more important than your material status. Remember that whilst these ladies are not wealthy they are very rich in many deeper and very attractive and admirable qualities.

There are many beautiful and smart Russian and Ukrainian ladies genuinely searching for love and a serious relationship and with care, luck, patience and respect you can find your perfect partner



Russian Singles

Mishael Mordinson asked:




This article is a list that consists of few concerns connected to searching soul mates abroad that were sent to me by a woman from the US. I will try to give answers and explain several things.

1. Why the women who come from Kharkov (Ukrainian city) are called Russian Women!?

Kharkov is a Ukrainian city and it is located in the eastern part of it, the boarder with Russia is just 60 km away, even though the national language in the country is Ukrainian, 95% of people speak Russian in Kharkov, also approximately 35% of people are actually Russian and most of the people consider themselves to be Russians over being Ukrainians.

2. Do you have any idea how many women are trafficked each year through mail order brides agencies?

Let me assure you that I know the statistics of human trafficking. There is nothing here for me to argue with you about, it is bad! Last year over 600 cases of human trafficking were revealed and brought to the court by Ukrainian police, it is almost twice as much as in 2005, so it looks like police does a better job than it did. As you might know most of women who are being “sold” are going to Russia, Turkey, Poland and several other Arab countries. I guess it is almost impossible to really “sell” anybody to US or Western European country. The official procedures that US government required from man and woman assure that the will is free and there is no miss leading here. I share your point of view! Those who are promising girls work and than make them work as prostitutes are out laws and they are punished for that, but I don’t quite understand what connection there is between legal officially recognized Agency and those people who sell women?

3. Do you have any idea how many actually marry a “nice guy,” only to be beaten, not let out of the house,
trapped in a country where they can’t speak the language?

One more very important question you high light: domestic violence. Bad husbands beat their wives in the US and in Ukraine as well! You know what is the difference? In Ukraine when she comes to police with a black eye and says that her husband did that, they will most likely tell her that this a family question she has to solve herself! I don’t live in the US but I have an idea of what happens in that case there! As you might know there is a new law called IMBR Act which makes man submit all his background info to the lady before their relationship becomes really serious, a man who has been under trial for any sexual crimes, or other publicly dangerous crimes just can’t invite a girl from Ukraine! I think beating a wife for a man in the US means he is going to jail, who would want that?

4. I know what it is about selling a wife that is so attractive…there’s a lot of money in it. How noble.

I am afraid I don’t know if you believe in G-d or not, but I hope you do, anyways let’s open the Book, if you find the chapter when our fore father Abraham tells his slave Eliezer to go and find a wife for his son Itzhak, you will understand why I am sure 100% that helping people to meet each other is a noble thing! Our work is shown in Tora (Bible) so I guess if we do all the work the right way and be honest with our clients, we are doing something that G-d likes!

I think there is nothing bad in our business as it helps people. Yes it does earn money too. Since 1999 we have had many clients, some of them have several children already and we should ask them, is it a good idea or not to try finding a bride from Ukraine!